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Thursday, June 26, 2025

Thoughts on Travel

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Now don't get me wrong, I rather enjoy travel, under certain circumstances. Traveling to go see friends and family? Love it. Traveling for work? Meh. Good thing I don't have to do the latter any more.

I've traveled for some distance¹ by: car, ship/boat, aircraft, bus, and even by train. Being a control freak of sorts, I prefer traveling by car. I'm in charge, I control the vehicle, and I call the shots. Thing is, that can be tiresome over distances which take longer than three hours to traverse.

Traffic, other drivers, the weather, and even the time of year all have an impact on the relative stressfulness of traveling by car. For instance ...

We returned from Maryland on a Sunday, having done that once before in the spring, noting just how little traffic there was. So ...

Of course April is not peak vacation season, June is the start of said season.

Now I'm not saying that all the traffic we encountered on the road were people returning from vacation (or perhaps setting out on vacation), most of the other vehicles had one or two occupants, some looked loaded up for vacation. Most did not.

We're also in the construction season, which closes down roads, makes others almost unusual, and sends people off in directions they perhaps didn't want to go. (Bothe emotionally and physically!)


I did travel by train, once upon a time. I had caught a space available flight from Okinawa to Korea, normally I could get one straight to where I wanted to go, which was Gunsan. On this day, there were (oddly enough) no flights to Gunsan. Hey, it's rare, happened once in my 12 months of shuttling back and forth between Okinawa and Korea.

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The green circle is where I wanted to go, the blue circle is where I wound up. Now a fellow serviceman on the aircraft (a first generation Korean-American in the US Navy) said, "Catch a train, it's easy. You do read Korean, right?"

Well, fortunately I did. The guy was also heading to the train station, so I tagged along. Spoke enough of the local lingo to figure out the schedule, had to go through the yellow circle to the green circle. It's where the train went.

Boarded and the train took off like a shot from a cannon, for about ten miles, then it slowed to damned near walking speed. But I eventually got to Daejon, where I discovered that the next train to Gunsan wasn't until the next day, early the next day, but still over twelve hours away.

Being the impatient type, I stepped out of the terminal. There was a gathering of taxi drivers waiting for folks wanting to depart the train station, myself being one. When they saw me they all perked up. One, the best English speaker, asked me where I was headed. When I answered, the drivers had a quick huddle, after which the English speaker informed me which of their number would haul me the fifty miles to Gunsan, and for how much.

It was pricey, but was actually cheaper than a NYC cab from JFK to Park Avenue. (Which may be a story for the future.)

Finally got home after my "big adventure." Well, I thought it was a big adventure, but it came nowhere near my mother-in-law's adventure of flying from Korea to Germany, all by herself and with a limited understanding of English and no knowledge at all of German.

I swear, my late, beloved mother-in-law could do anything she set her mind to and God help you if you got in the way. Woman was determined!

I rather miss her. She passed away less than seven months later, it was sudden and it was a shock, but we did get to see her for a month in Germany.

Anyhoo, more travel tales later, maybe.

It's hot here and I ain't much in the mood to write.

Crabby old man syndrome.




¹ By "some distance" I mean anything taking more than an hour to travel.

24 comments:

  1. Well, Taxi to Gunsan was less exciting than Train to Busan eh Sarge? Wait......is..... that......howling.... in the distance......

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  2. What I miss most about travel is the spontaneity that used to be possible. You could get in your car and drive until you found a place you'd like to explore a bit. But now, if you have not made earlier reservations, you may find yourself paying half again the normal rate or not finding lodging at all. What sucks about getting old is knowing how good it was years before.

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    1. I'm not much of a spontaneous guy. I travel based on somewhere I want to go, I do very few things on a whim.

      Why is it that the old always think that things used to be better? Not always the case ya know.

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  3. I enjoy traveling by car but the wife hates it. One of our best vacations was following Route 66 from Santa Monica to Oklahoma hitting all the hot spots along the way.

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    1. For me it isn't the journey, it's the destination. I choose the mode of transport best suited to the situation.

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  4. Sarge, I have gotten a lot more jaded about travel than I used to be. Most of mine has all been by air for the last ten years or so, and air travel (as I have often lamented here and elsewhere) is just not what it used to be. I am honestly looking forward to some "car" vacations - although to OldVet's note above, even that now lacks the spontaneity of being able to just go - also, just the time involved (at least when you are still a working stiff with x amount of days).

    Nighean Dhonn has used the buses quite frequently or the trains in South Korea, mostly to get back and forth to Seoul. And of course, we almost exclusively use the trains and subways when we train in Japan. So darn convenient (and practically everything has some English somewhere).

    I would enjoy reading the story of your mother-in-law someday. Sounds like a formidable woman.

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    1. The buses in Korea were my chosen mode of transport when I lived there. On Okinawa I relied on shank's mare.

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  5. Sarge,
    Interesting. I made that exact same trip back in the day. Taxi drivers have absolutely no fear of death. I thought I didn’t think I did either. Apparently, I was wrong. There was a visit to the O Club that evening.
    Thanks for the reminder. I may have trouble sleeping tonight.
    juvat

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    1. I don't remember my trip being all that traumatic. Perhaps because it was after dark?

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  6. And how long is a cab ride from Daejeon to Gunsan?

    I feel you about the drives. I have to participate in events in Visalia CA (20 minutes east of Hanford), 3-4 times a year, and I've been flying into Fresno. It's not that I abhor driving, or driving that far (5+30), but since that route must traverse LA, flying is a mo bettah. Considering the time a flight actually takes, the rental car line, the drive after, etc., I'm not saving all that much time, but I'm saving my sanity.

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    1. I don't remember how long it took, not short, that's for sure.

      I know where Visalia is, remember LUSH lives in Hanford.

      I'll get into the drive versus fly thing shortly, I think.

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    2. I think it was anout 5-6 hours. Could becwrong.
      juvat

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  7. Driving, for me, is a way of life. I loath commercial flying. Not the actual airtime but the terminal experience. Most of my working life involved driving somewhere. Retired, I still drive everywhere. Two days to South Carolina and two days back instead of flying? I have the time. Now days, I stay off the Interstates. Less traffic and far fewer semi trucks trying to pass each other with a 1.5 mph speed differential. My trips take an extra hour and my irritation meter stays low. Mr Bladder appreciates the many discreet places to void instead of waiting for a rest stop.

    I seldom drive in congested areas and haven't driven in the New York metro area in decades so don't know if my habits are practical there. I have survived driving past Atlanta at 1700 on a Friday.

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  8. I miss travelling. Fun times on the road, eating sandwiches made in the morning, listening to music, enjoying other travelers, spending time under the glowing orb of pain during the day and highbeams shining in my eyes at night... I... don't miss traveling anymore. Enjoyable as a youth and young man, but as I got older, not so much.

    As to the cost of a taxi trip in NYfC, I do believe you can get a black market Urgyar-sourced kidney from China for less than a taxi/lyft/uber ride in said NYfC. Especially now that it looks like NYfC will be going full Cuba due to their potentially new mayor.

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  9. FREEDOM! It's a great thing as we all make our choices and pays our money to do things the chosen way.

    I will never add to airport crowding if there is any possible alternative.

    Last time I was on a bus (other than part of a tour group) was over a half century ago.
    JB

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    1. I rode the Gunsan to Osan bus (and back), a few times. In the "old days," think pre-Olympics Korea, bus or train was the only way to go.

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  10. I am thinking of going to Europe in the fall, and wondering how I would do this time. For years, I would travel with a carefree attitude. I would get on a train or plane and just assume that I would find a place at my destination. Two of the most interesting stays I had was in Norway and Dresden. In Norway I went to this small town, Flam, and there were no hotels. Didn't bother me. Ended up staying at a family's house.

    In Dresden the Wall had just come down 2 years earlier and there were so many German businessmen in town there wasn't a hotel room to be had that wasn't $400. I asked a local where to go and she said there was a farmer family in the hills who rented rooms.

    As with many unexpected turns this was a memorable time. Ended up having a beer with the German farmer at night and we compared life in the West vs the DDR.

    But with age I suppose I start to wonder about this attitude. I want more certainty. And I don't know what age has to do with it but there you have it.

    Airline travel has lost all of its appeal to me too. I suppose if I want to go back to Germany I will be in a tube for 13 hours but the thought of sitting in a cramped seat and dancing for the TSA isn't appealing.

    Maybe I am becoming a curmudgeon.

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